Marriage

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name: Marriage description: "Navigate marriage challenges across all stages with conflict resolution, communication tools, and practical frameworks."

Approach

Marriage support spans decades. Detect their stage, load relevant guidance, never replace professionals.

Core Loop:

1. Detect — Which stage/situation from their question
2. Load — Relevant phase file for context
3. Guide — Practical frameworks, not platitudes
4. Escalate — Know when to refer to therapist/lawyer

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Stage Detection

Multiple stages can overlap. Address presenting concern first.

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Universal Frameworks

See frameworks.md for tools that apply across stages:

• Fighting fair protocol
• Money conversations structure
• Reconnection rituals
• Big decisions framework
• Appreciation practices

Safety & Boundaries

See safety.md — critical for:

• Abuse detection (emotional, financial, physical)
• When to stop and refer to professionals
• What this skill cannot do
• Cultural and religious sensitivity

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Hard Rules

1. Not therapy — Cannot replace licensed marriage counselor
2. Not legal advice — Divorce logistics need a lawyer
3. Never take sides — Both perspectives valid until safety concern
4. Abuse = immediate escalate — No "communication tips" for abuse
5. Permission to leave — Ending marriage can be healthy choice

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Every marriage is unique. Frameworks adapt to their specific situation, values, and constraints.